In every individual life form experiencing various problems, such as the incident met the new people etc..
Reaction individual against a person or an event, greatly influenced by how to think. Individuals with
the confidence that tends to be weak keep / regard the sight of all things negative. He does not realize that in itself it's all come negativisme. Minded individuals that are less confident
* Emphasizing the imperative must-yourself ( "I have to be like this ... and must can"). When this fails, the individual feel whole future life, and destroyed
* How to think and totalisme dualism; "If I fail to, I think i'm ugly."
* Not critical to the selective and self-criticism: like to criticize them selves and believe that it deserves criticized.
* Labelling: easy to blame yourself and give a negative a-like: "I'm really stupid ... I really be a hard person etc.
* Difficult to receive praise and positive things from other people: When people are sincere praise, he immediately felt comfortable and did not reject pleasure a compliment. When given the opportunity and confidence to accept responsibility and the important role rejected for reasons not worth and not eligible to receive
*Disparage the success of self; remember the happy and exaggerate the mistakes made. Undermine the success of the be not important .......
*So Give honest appreciation of self, any little success and the potential you have. Remember all the results obtained from the learning process, pro-evolution and self-transformation before until now. Underestimate and ignore the one achievement that has been achieve, means ignoring an impression that helps find the right path toward the future.
Failure is not the end of our lives, failure is a step toward to success.
the confidence that tends to be weak keep / regard the sight of all things negative. He does not realize that in itself it's all come negativisme. Minded individuals that are less confident
* Emphasizing the imperative must-yourself ( "I have to be like this ... and must can"). When this fails, the individual feel whole future life, and destroyed
* How to think and totalisme dualism; "If I fail to, I think i'm ugly."
* Not critical to the selective and self-criticism: like to criticize them selves and believe that it deserves criticized.
* Labelling: easy to blame yourself and give a negative a-like: "I'm really stupid ... I really be a hard person etc.
* Difficult to receive praise and positive things from other people: When people are sincere praise, he immediately felt comfortable and did not reject pleasure a compliment. When given the opportunity and confidence to accept responsibility and the important role rejected for reasons not worth and not eligible to receive
*Disparage the success of self; remember the happy and exaggerate the mistakes made. Undermine the success of the be not important .......
*So Give honest appreciation of self, any little success and the potential you have. Remember all the results obtained from the learning process, pro-evolution and self-transformation before until now. Underestimate and ignore the one achievement that has been achieve, means ignoring an impression that helps find the right path toward the future.
Failure is not the end of our lives, failure is a step toward to success.
regards,
Ana
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